Naming your kid after a famous outlaw is fating him to a life of outside accepted boundaries, even if in Jesse's case it's just outside the laws of decency.)

Once head over heels in love with JJ, the LA Ink star Tweeted "I am no longer w Jesse, and out of respect for him, his family and myself, thats (sic) all the info I'd like to share. Thanks for respecting that."

The two reality TV stars hooked up after James' famous falling out with exwife Sandra Bullock following revelations of his extramarital affairs. The news came just weeks after she delivered a saccharine-sweet thanks to him for watching her back as she collected a best actress Oscar.

The A-lister dumped her Monster Garage host who rewarded her by telling Howard Stern that Kat was "100 percent" better in bed.

"I'm so sad because I really love her," James tells PEOPLE mag. "The distance between us was just too much." But it was only months ago when he was smothering rumors that their relationship was cracking. "Everything is on track,'' he said while denying problems. "I am absolutely more in love today than I was a year ago. She's the one for me"

James lives outside Austin, Texas with three kids from a previous marriage. And Kat lives in Los Angeles where she tapes her tattoo art series.

Jesse appears in the fifth season of Kat's series which begins airing late this month in which Kat talks about the strains of living in different cities, saying "[It's] a long distance relationship, but we're just making it work."

Okay everybody, get back to living.

Kat says in promos for the new season: "'I feel like I'm the luckiest girl. I don't care what anyone thinks."